Men in particular are interested in urethral stimulation. While women are less likely to discover this form of stimulation for themselves, many men come up with the idea of stimulating the entrance to the urethra during masturbation. This game is also known as sounding.
Urethral stimulation with a dilator: a special sensation
Whether with fingers, tongue or special sex toys - urethral stimulation can feel extremely intense. Dilators come into play to increase this feeling and experience it in a controlled manner. They are shaped in such a way that they stimulate the urethra and urethral opening as evenly and gently as possible.
Playing with the urethra has a long history and has become much more visible today. If you look around a little, you will find numerous forums, testimonials and pictures on the subject of urethral stimulation and sounding.
Men and women can enjoy urethral stimulation - whether with a finger, tongue, penis plug or dilator. Urethral stimulation is also popular in the fetish and BDSM sector because it can create a strong feeling of control and surrender.
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Health & safety are always paramount
As pleasurable as urethral stimulation can be, the urethra is a very sensitive and vulnerable area. Many men (and some women) have had bad experiences because they have used unsuitable objects or underestimated hygiene.
People who have inserted wires, beads or other unsuitable objects into their urethra and can't get them out end up in emergency rooms all the time. This is not only painful, but can also cause permanent damage.
If you have a mishap, please don't hesitate too long out of shame. Go to the emergency room as soon as possible and openly describe what has happened - the sooner doctors can act, the easier it will be to solve the problem.
If you want to try urethral stimulation, dilators are a much safer choice. They were developed precisely for this purpose, have a suitable shape and cannot simply disappear into the urethra when used correctly.
Dilators are also easy to clean and disinfect - a crucial point, as the urethra and bladder should never be contaminated with germs from outside.
Start sounding safe: dilators & accessories
With the right equipment, urethral stimulation becomes more controlled, hygienic and safe:
- Stainless steel & flexible dilators - different lengths and diameters to get you started.
- Buy penis plugs - ideal for shorter sessions and clinic fantasies.
- Lubricant for toys & sounding - preferably sterile or high-quality water-based.
- Toy cleaner & disinfectant - for thorough cleaning before and after play.
- Intimate douche - for a clean feeling around your urethral session.
Tip: Take your time, work cleanly and only increase the diameter and intensity when everything feels really good.
Maximum sterility and cleanliness are essential for urethral stimulation. If possible, use sterile or very high-quality lubricant and clean your dilators carefully. This will significantly reduce the risk of urinary tract infections or bladder infections.
The right dilator for men
Dilator guide for him
You don't need much to discover urethral stimulation with a dilator:
- a high-quality dilator made of medical-grade stainless steel or suitable material,
- a disinfectant cleaning agent or toy cleaner,
- a sterile or very clean, water-based lubricant.
A small diameter is a good place to start. Many people start at around 4 mm to slowly get used to the feeling. Later on, you can gradually work your way up to larger diameters.
As a man, you have the advantage that there is a large selection of dilators and penis plugs - in different lengths, diameters and shapes. The male urethra is largely straight, so it can be stimulated along its entire length.
How to get started with urethral stimulation
Take some time to familiarize yourself with your urethra. Stroke the exit of the urethra with your fingers or a soft vibrator and observe how sensitive this area reacts.
If you have a suitable dilator, you can start slowly. Spread lubricant on the tip of your penis and on the dilator. Then start by stroking the tip of the dilator over the entrance to your urethra.
As soon as you feel ready, you can gently insert the dilator. Let it 'slide in' on its own instead of pushing it in with pressure. Concentrate on the feeling and try to relax your muscles.
The male urethra is pleasantly straight, so you can slowly push the dilator further in. Even the first few centimetres can trigger a tingling, new sensation. For many, this stimulation is enough to experience an orgasm.
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More variety with different dilators
Once you're used to urethral stimulation, you can vary your play. In addition to stainless steel dilators, there are models made of other materials, with texture or in a curved shape.
Combined with different diameters, you get completely new stimuli. Advanced users sometimes use dilators in combination with stimulation current devices. This type of stimulation is extremely intense and should only be tried with experience and a lot of caution - always start with a low strength and increase slowly.
Absolute confidence: having the urethra stimulated
Urethral stimulation can be even more intense with a partner or in a BDSM session. You relinquish control and leave your most sensitive area to another person.
It is important that you trust the active person and communicate clearly what is okay and what is not. It is best to use a safeword or a clear signal so that you can stop the game at any time.
As soon as something feels painful or wrong, you should stop the game immediately. Brief irritation can be normal - persistent pain is a clear signal to stop.
Pain during dilator use
When used correctly, a dilator is a relatively safe way to stimulate the urethra. However, movements that are too hectic or hard can still cause pain.
Mild, short-lasting discomfort is usually not critical. However, if you experience severe or prolonged pain, bleeding or burning when urinating, you should seek medical attention as soon as possible - there is no room for false shame here.
The right dilators for women
Dilator guide for her
There are two types of dilators for women. On the one hand, there are urethral dilators- as with men. These are often more flexible, as the female urethra is not straight.
On the other hand, there are vaginal dilators, which are usually prescribed medically, for example for pain during intercourse or vaginismus. The focus here is on stretching, not sexual stimulation.
Vaginal dilators are used in different diameters until the muscles have become accustomed to the penetration depth and circumference. They can - if desired - be incorporated into pleasurable foreplay, but are primarily used in a therapeutic context.
Urethral dilators for women in use
Many women are already extremely sensitive at the entrance to the urethra and can be aroused by it. However, only a few discover internal urethral stimulation - it is often a partner who brings this type of play into play.
Hygiene is also the be-all and end-all here. Always use sterile or very well-cleaned dilators and sufficient lubricant. Due to the position of the urethral endings, it can be difficult for many women to perform the game alone - a trusted person can help.
It is important that the flexible dilator follows slowly and without pressure. It "finds" its way and should not be pushed against resistance. Take your time, listen to your body and it's better to stop once more than once too little.
Using vaginal dilators correctly
Vaginal dilators are usually recommended for vaginismus or pain during penetration. The muscles contract unconsciously, which can make sex painful or impossible.
With dilators, you can get used to the feeling at your own pace. Important: The insertion should be as painless as possible. Use plenty of lubricant and work your way up to larger sizes slowly.
If you like, you can use the dilators or penis plugs together with your partner. Sexual arousal can make it easier to relax and make training more enjoyable.
Even when sexual intercourse is possible again, dilators can still be helpful as preparation before sex. Vaginismus is nothing to be ashamed of - many women are affected.
For men and women: Always clean dilators thoroughly
Hygiene is important with sex toys - and it's absolutely crucial with urethral dilators. You are inserting the toy into an area of the body that is extremely sensitive to germs.
Therefore, always clean your dilators before and after each use. Use warm water, a mild soap and then a suitable disinfectant or toy cleaner. Make sure that no residue remains.
This reduces the risk of bacteria getting into the urethra and causing cystitis, urinary tract infections or, in the worst case, kidney involvement.
Cleaning & care for your dilators
- Toy cleaner & disinfectant - especially for thorough cleaning of sex toys.
- Lubricant for sensitive areas - water-based gels that are easy to wash off.
- Clinic accessories - for anyone who wants to combine their sounding play with clinic fantasies.
- Black examination gloves - for hygiene and an authentic clinic feeling.
Clean toys, clean hands, good lubricant - so that sounding remains as safe and enjoyable as possible.
Hygiene is just as important for urethral stimulation with dilators as
Patience, caution and consideration for the limits of the person you are stimulating.
Liest sich wirklich interessant. Für mich ist das jedoch nichts. Ich bin da etwas sehr empfindlich. Ich musste mal einen Abstrich machen / machen lassen. Ich hatte ein paar Problemchen beim Pinkeln. Also meinte mein Arzt, na dann nehmen wir mal einen Abstrich. Er gab mir einen Tupfer und ich sollte aufs Klo verschwinden. Das Wattestäbchen hat nur ganz vorne die Harnröhre berührt und schon hatte ich Pipi in den Augen! Ja, also von daher kann ich so gar nicht nachvollziehen, dass es Männer gibt, die sich freiwillig die Harnröhre dehnen. Und dann auch noch so stark steigern. Ich mag ja kratzen, beißen und Co, aber das geht mir zu weit :D
Die Stelle, mit dem im Krankenhaus landen, ließ mich da direkt erröten. Ich habe leider auch schlechte Erfahrungen mit der Harnröhrenstimulation machen müssen. Ich habe meinen damaligen Partner blind vertraut. Es wird toll, versprach er mir. Dass er diese Stimulation aber nicht sanft machen wird und ich am Ende volle Kanne am Bluten bin, hat er mir verschwiegen! Für mich kommt diese Stimulation nie mehr in Frage. Macht so was lieber selber oder wirklich nur mit jemanden, den ihr lange kennt.
Viele finden das Gefühl, etwas in der Harnröhre zu haben unangenehm oder gar schmerzhaft. Ich finde es regelrecht elektrisierend. Es macht mich tierisch an! Ihr müsst mal einen Orgasmus mit Dilator in der Harnröhre haben. Das ist einfach ein nicht zu toppendes Gefühl! Ich mag es, wenn es anfängt zu brennen und leicht schmerzt. Jedoch muss wirklich immer Gleitgel im Spiel sein. Ohne ist das tatsächlich nicht zu machen.
Macht viel Lust und ist Interessant die Harnröhre zu Stimulsieren
Habe einen Harnrohren Vibriator und dabe diesen auch schon des öftern Benutzt
Das Einfüren mit viel Gleitgeel ist Pflicht da es sonnst sehr Schmerzhaft ist Ist der Harnröhrenvibriatror erst einmal in den Penis Eingeführe kann er Eingeschaltet werden und dann in voller Länne bis zur Eichel oder Prostata plaziert werden was ein super Gefühl und hinterher einen TOP Orgassmus Auslöst
Die Harnröhre ist dann soweit gedehnt dass das Sperma sehr gut daraus kommt